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Monday, January 22, 2018

Perfection

Want a simple picture book that is a metaphor for life? Here you go.
Picture Book: Perfect Square 
Author & Illustrator: Michael Hall
Summary: A square begins as perfection 
and very, in fact perfectly, happy. 
But something changes it. Holes are punched. Pieces are cut. The perfect square is no more. 
It makes the best of the changes and becomes a gurgling fountain. 
 Then tearing happens. What next? 
 A garden. 
Then it is shredded into strips of itself 
which is perfect for a park.
Next comes shattering. 
 Bridge building is better. 
 Being snipped into ribbons is different. 
This leads to an unusual river. 
Next comes crumpling, wrinkling, and more ripping. 
The result looks a lot like a mountain.
The square waits.  
It's perspective is changed. It feels too limited by the corners, the 4 equal sides so... 
it becomes a window, 
a window... 
and... 
a fountain that gurgles with joy.
Hanna’s Comments: I love the creativity of this book! Oh to have such talent! If your audience is like me, they might be a little bothered that the words here don't seem quite true. Obviously, the changes are happening to multiple squares. I've represented the author/illustrator's words above, but be sure to ask your audience why Hall might have chosen to keep the story singular while the illustrations show multiple squares being transformed. Each transformations happens on a day of the week so this book can be used with young children to practice saying those words in order. I hope you see the potential here to talk about perfection & imperfection, resurrection, loss and renewal, healing, transformation, vulnerability, and resilience. Hall has another cool book about shapes titled My Heart is Like a Zoo. Every animal in the illustrations is comprised of hearts. It’s perfect if you’re looking for a lesson (or craft) near Valentine’s Day or a lesson focused on God’s heart.  [Here’s] an Amazon link. I’ll likely feature more of Michael Hall’s books later on PBT. His work is so simple but profound!
Original Publisher & Date: Greenwillow, 2011
Age & Grade Appropriateness: 5 and up, K and up
Formats other than Book: Not at present
Scripture Connections: Do not be conformed to this world but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will the God, what is good and acceptable and perfect. (Romans 12:2); If anyone is in Christ, that person is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold the new has come. (2 Corinthians 5:17); If we love one another, God abides in us and God’s love is perfected in us. (1 John 4:12)
Idea(s) for Application: Read this book to any age group and talk about how difficult experiences bring forth healing transformation. Then talk about how faith informs and directs such resilience. Christ's resurrection is an obvious connection. OR Let this book be a part of a lesson on perfection versus imperfection and pride versus humility. Check out Brene Brown’s work for inspiration, particularly her very entertaining TED Talks [here] and [here.] I recommend viewing them in this order. The faith aspects of her work are obvious.  

Monday, November 6, 2017

Beauty in Response to Violence

The following post was written last week so I do not mention yesterday's massacre in a Texas church. Violence at a place of worship is particularly hard to bear. Prayer is our most crucial tool so I pray for those affected by the madness of yesterday. Picture books and art, such as the music in the story below, are other tools that can benefit faith families reeling from violence, but allow time for the settling of those emotions and deal with most urgent needs first. Stories more easily bring healing when we can sit and listen with open hearts, not hearts burdened with fear and grief. 

Next Monday in the USA, we will be honoring our veterans so I've been saving this book, a true story, that reminds us violence, via war or otherwise, affects not just our veterans but entire communities. Additionally, art such as music as in this book or other artistic expressions, can be a balm of healing. If you are a veteran, thank you for your service and many sacrifices. If not a veteran but violence has touched you recently, my prayer is that healing can come through ritual, beauty, and community.
Picture Book: Flowers for Sarajevo
Author: John McCutcheon
Illustrator: Kristy Caldwell
Summary: Drasko, a young Yugoslavian boy, enjoys helping his father, Milo, sell flowers on the street. 
There Drasko enjoys Sarajevo's diversity of Serbs, Croats, Muslims, and Christians. Despite their differences, most go home with Milo's flowers. Milo loves their differences, even Goran, the cranky merchant next to them, is enjoyed by Milo. 
But war begins quickly, and Drasko's father leaves for the battlefied. 
Drasko works hard to keep his family fed by remaining on the streets, selling flowers. Tensions increase across those who remain, 
and Drasko gets pushed to the worst corner. At least he's near where the orchestra practices. Lonely and missing his father (the music reminds him of their dancing), 
Drasko doesn't know war is about to enter Sarajevo's streets. 
An explosion shatters a wall in the bakery nearby. Chaos ensues. Those who can scatter.
Twenty people have been killed while in line for the bakery. Still Drasko returns to the emptier street the next day. 
When the church bell rings at 10, a man exits the orchestra 
and carries his cello and a chair amidst the rubble.  
At the site of the bomb, the musician sits and plays. Silently, a diverse group gathers, is moved by the music, 
and then watches as the musician leaves also in silence. 
Drasko is so heartbroken, he gives his roses away. 
The musician solemnly repeats daily for a total of 22 times, his ritual gift for the city, a performance for each lost life. 
Drasko begins a ritual too. Each night he prays 23 prayers, one for each who died and one for his father. 
Routine forms again and sellers, even the bakers, are open for business. Mean Gorin brings a customer to Drasko and compliments his flowers. Drasko returns the favor with a rose as his father often did. 
At each day's end, Drasko leaves roses at the bakery and at the orchestra's door. 
He places a rose at Milo's place at the table. Like his father, Drasko is determined to help Sarajevo remember and return to its beauty.
Hanna’s Comments: Sarajevo, Yugoslavia was a diverse city whose glory days you might remember from the 1984 winter Olympics. During The Bosnian War, a bomb did damage the last bakery, killing 22 people. For 22 days, cellist Vedran Smailovic honored the inhabitants with Albinoni's Adagio in G Minor, a piece known to have miraculously survived a bombing in Dresden, Germany during WWII. Later, Sarajevo was under siege for 1,425 days, the longest for any capitol city in modern warfare. Thousands of inhabitants lost their lives. The beautiful city that had been celebrated only a decade before, was a war zone. Smailovic became known as The Cellist of Sarajevo. In the back of the book, you'll find the score, lyrics, an Author's Note, and a section called A Region Shaped by War which gives a summary of the Yugoslav wars of the 1990s. An audio CD was included in my book that contains lots of supplemental material such as conversations and the author reading the book with page turn prompts. 
Original Publisher & Date: Peachtree, 2017
Age & Grade Appropriateness: 6 and up, 1st and up
Formats other than Book: Audio CD
Scripture Connections: And my God, my soul is cast down within me. (Psalm 42:6); When I remember God, I moan. (Psalm 77:3); These days should be remembered and kept through every generation. (Esther 9:28)
Idea(s) for Application: Read this book to a group of adults when studying the spirituality of art or resilience. Use this book as an example of the power of rituals of remembering or lamentations and mourning. Consider giving this book as a gift of gratitude to musicians in your faith family.