Showing posts with label siblings. Show all posts
Showing posts with label siblings. Show all posts

Monday, April 23, 2018

Fruit of the Spirit: Love

The amazing power of love, the first fruit listed in Paul's Fruits of the Spirit, is explored in the book below. I confess, I'm not crazy about this book. It's a little too saccharine for my taste and some illustrations don't meet the standards of most PBT books. I also apologize for the damage to the book that you'll see in the photos. This copy has been loved! Despite all these reservations, I firmly believe the idea at the center of this story! It has such potential for ministry to folks of all ages and would offer important reassurance to children. Exploring the facets and power of love is always a good idea for families of faith so consider using it as inspiration for creative programming ideas, especially if, like me, this book's shortcomings bother you. If you like the book, fabulous! Read it to those you love! 
Picture Book: The Invisible String
Author: Patrice Karst 
Illustrator: Geoff Stevenson
Summary: The story begins with twins frightened by a thunderstorm.
They rush to their mother, needing comfort. She encourages them to go back to their beds. 
The siblings want to stay close to their mom, but she reassures them that they are together even if rooms separate them. The children wonder how this can be. 
Their mom explains that her own mother told her about "The Invisible String" when she was a child. It seems that "people who love each other are always connected by a very special String made of love." 
The children are intrigued and ask how they can know the invisible string is there if it can't be seen. Mom explains that there's a tug you feel that is the love in your heart. 
When the twins are at school, the love between the three of them is still strong thanks to that Invisible String across the distance. Their love goes to Mom all the way from school. 
Her love comes to them from home. 
The kids want to know if their cat has a string. "Sure," their mother explains. 
Best friends do too. Then a profound question comes: "How far can the Invisible Strings reach?"  
Their mom explains that this kind of string is unlimited. Her son tests that idea with distances to the bottom of an ocean.
A mountain top?
On animal adventures? 
And aboard a spaceship?
Her daughter asks about performing in France. In all situations, the children are assured that The Invisible String of love will connect them no matter the distance or situation. 
The last question is offered by the son who remembers Uncle Brian in heaven. Does his string reach that far? "Yes, even there," his mother answers. 
Then their mom considers the future. She explains that even when they are older and arguing about what to watch on a screen 
or who gets to sit in the front seat of the car, The Invisible String will be there, connecting them with love. 
Reassured and no longer so afraid of the storm, the children are hustled back to bed.   
Soon they are dreaming of all The Invisible Strings that connect them to their many friends
The story ends with the comforting message that no one is ever alone. 
Hanna’s Comments: This story is an important message of the connections we have with those we love and the transcendent power of love. Notice that the author chooses to capitalize the words The Invisible String, perhaps a subtle hint of the sacredness of such love. God's love is not mentioned, but it is between every line and page. One other criticism of this story: There's some gender bias here. Notice that the son tests the limits of The Invisible String in more varied and adventurous ways (a submarine, a spaceship, a mountain top). In contrast, the daughter is seen performing on stage in Paris. Parents and folks in ministry should pay attention to subtle ways female roles are limited and male roles are elevated. We don't want our girls ambitions to be stifled. 
Original Publisher & Date: Devorss & Co., 2000
Age & Grade Appropriateness: 4 and up, Pre and up
Formats other than Book: Tablet
Scripture Connections: In addition to The Fruit of the Spirit verses in Galatians 5:22-23 consider this simple but profound verse: Love never ends. (1 Corinthians 13:8). Also, there are Bible stories that emphasize human to human connections despite distance. Here are some familiar possibilities: David and Jonathan (1 Samuel 20), Jesus separated from his parents (Luke 2:41-52), Parable of the Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-32), and Jairus’ daughter (Luke 8:41-32, 49-56).  
Idea(s) for Application: Read this book or present this intriguing idea to a group of children or teens who are exploring being connected despite distance thanks to the power of love. 

Monday, April 9, 2018

Fruit of the Spirit: Self-Control

Today begins a series of PBT posts featuring books that are about 1 of the 9 Fruits of the Spirit listed in Galatians 5:22-23: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. We need an abundance of these in our world today! 
Picture Book: Katie Loves the Kittens
Author & Illustrator: John Himmelman
Summary: Katie is thrilled when Sara Ann brings home 3 new kittens. 
You can tell because of her happy howl 
which doesn’t go over so well with the kittens. 
Sara Ann strongly suggests that Katie stay away until the kittens get used to Katie’s enthusiasm. 
Katie is very sad. 
But Katie wants to play with those kittens so much! Later she sees Sara Ann playing with the trio. 
She tries to control herself, but... 
chaos ensues and Sara Ann reprimands her again. 
Katie misses the kittens terribly when they sleep in Sara Ann’s room that night.  
She must see them so she goes outside, 
finds the window, and looks in. 
Katie really wants to smell those sweet kittens,  
but they are too far away. Here she goes!
Sara Ann thinks Katie doesn’t like the kittens. 
Katie is very, very sad. 
The next morning, Katie finds 3 bowls of breakfast! Yum! Yum! Yum!
When Sara Ann finds her,  
Katie realizes she has done wrong.
She goes to her bed and stays there all day, very sad. Eventually she falls asleep. When she wakes…
the kittens are snuggled in with Katie! 
She wants to howl. She wants to jump. She wants to chase! But Katie doesn't. Katie has self-control! The kittens love her!
Sara Ann adds to the joy with some praise.
The story ends with more joy and not much self-control from anyone!
Hanna’s Comments: Think this book is just for kids? Imagine reading it to a group of adults and then tiptoeing into issues of self-control regarding screen time, junk food, sports, and other adult obsessions. Explore why these issues are about faith and devotion to God. Consider why God is pleased when we demonstrate self-control. Your children will relate to this book. Adults will find the conversation more meaningful if the subject is handled sensitively. You may want to begin with a confession about one of your own self-control struggles. That will leave the humor of the book behind and steer the conversation to a level of seriousness ripe for vulnerability. 
There's a sequel that has Katie once again struggling with her self-control when a neighbor dog "invades" her home. 
By the way, if you're a student of the Enneagram (big fan here!), Katie is definitely a 7 (so am I)!
Original Publisher & Date: Henry Holt, 2008
Age & Grade Appropriateness: 4 and up, Pre and up
Formats other than Book: Tablet, video, audiobook
Scripture Connections: In addition to The Fruit of the Spirit in Galatians 5:22-23, A person with no self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls (Proverbs 25:28); For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control (2 Timothy 1:7); Supplement your faith with virtue, your virtue with knowledge, your knowledge with self-control… (2 Peter 1:5-7)
Idea(s) for Application: Read this book to a group of any age folks in your faith family and consider how self-control relates to our devotion to God. 

Monday, February 26, 2018

Do you know what Baby wants?

Picture Book: What Baby Wants
Author: Phyllis Root
Illustrator: Jill Bartow
Summary: This hilarious tale involves an extended family who live on a farm. 
There is a new baby in their midst and Mama is exhausted. All her family convince her to take a nap, assuring her that they will take care of Baby. 
She does take a nap after feeding Baby and tucking him into his crib. The love this family has for this new child is evident. As happens too often, as soon as Mama leaves the room... 
Baby begins wailing. Grandma knows just what to do. 
She goes out to the field and picks some beautiful flowers for Baby. 
But Baby doesn't care for all the flowers! Next Grandpa knows just what Baby wants. 
He ventures out to the farmyard and brings in a soft, feathery goose.  You'll see the repetitive wordplay with each ridiculous situation. Unsurprisingly, Baby isn't comforted by the goose and begins wailing again. This time Aunt has an idea. Baby needs a kiss... 
from the long soft tongue of a cow! Baby responds as you might expect. Next it's Uncle's turn. He's convinced that Baby needs something to keep him warm...
like some sheep's wool. Meanwhile, it's getting really crowded in the farmhouse! Big Sister, who is amazingly strong, knows just what Baby wants! He needs a melody to lull him to sleep. 
Why not a tree full of birds!  
But Baby doesn't get a lullaby. All the twittering makes him anxious! 

 
The wailing continues.
This family is befuddled. What does Baby want? 
Big Brother has been very concerned all along. He has an idea. 

He picks up Baby, gives him a kiss, wraps him in his quilt, 
and sings him that lullaby, a soft, little lullaby. That's what Baby wanted!
 
Everyone is relieved. Hushaby, shushabye,  Baby goes to sleep. 
Just in time for Daddy's entrance from work. He asks if Baby is alright and is reassured by the entire group that Baby is being well cared for while Mama is sleeping. 
Exhausted, everyone decides some sleep is a good idea.   
Hanna’s Comments: This book was one of my children's favorites! I'm especially glad that it is the big brother who knows just what Baby wants. Boys need to be encouraged to be nurturing so they will be great brothers, uncles, and/or fathers someday! The ridiculousness of the story brings home a lesson that really is hard for some people. That lesson is the importance of empathy, a skill that sometimes needs to be taught. A faith family is a great place to learn more about empathy. Empathy is the foundation for God's second great commandment (love others as you love yourself) and The Golden Rule (do to others what you would have them do to you). It is also an important skill to have when striving for goodness, kindness, and gentleness, three of the Fruits of the Spirit that Paul mentions in Galatians. 
Original Publisher & Date: Candlewick, 1998
Age & Grade Appropriateness: 4 and up, Pre and up
Formats other than Book: None at present
Scripture Connections: Love your neighbor as yourself (Deuteronomy 6:5; Matthew 22:39; Mark 12:31; Luke 6:31); kindness, goodness, and gentleness (Galatians 5:22)
Idea(s) for Application: Read this fun book in a lesson about loving neighbor as self, loving family members, or goodness, kindness, and gentleness (3 of the Fruits of the Spirit).