Thursday, January 7, 2016

Welcoming Strangers and Spoilsports


There are picture books that I wish everyone would read. This is one of them. Here you can find a sermon every few pages and illustrations that capture the heart of who we are as fragile, hurtful, but hopeful human beings. If you let the juvenile nature of this book keep you from offering it to teens or adults, you’ll be missing out on an opportunity to slip into some meaningful conversations about difficult relationships and building meaningful community.

The young boy in this book has a tiny elephant for a pet. Life is difficult because no one else has a pet quite like his. But the joy of loving his pet is worth the trouble of “never fitting in.” When they are not allowed to enter Number 17 on Pet Club Day, he meets a friend with a skunk who already knows she would not be welcome either. When they meet more excluded friends with unusual pets, they start a new club. Look at this!

When I see this illustration, I think about my church with pride, the good kind of pride because I believe we are aligning ourselves with God’s values. There are the obvious outsiders that we welcome: those who live on the street, those who “live in sin,” those who live with addiction, etc. But we are also godly when we are determined to be in loving, on-going relationship with those who are strange or spoilsports.

See any strangers (or strange people) or spoilsports in your neighborhood? Your church? Your work? Let’s really talk about how to be more welcoming and loving in their midst and less like Number 17. And remember, in certain crowds we all have the potential to be strangers and spoilsports, longing for welcome and validation, looking for those who will invest in relationship.

Picture Book: Strictly No Elephants
Author: Lisa Mantchev
Illustrator: Taeeun Yoo
Original Publisher & Date: Simon & Schuster, 2015
Age & Grade Appropriateness: 4 and up, Pre and up
Formats other than Book: Tablet

Monday, January 4, 2016

Asking for Grace


I made a mistake! I quit posting at PBT and I'm sorry for it. Today I ask for grace. 

I knew that I wanted to expand and improve this PBT blog and my vocational activities, but I became overwhelmed and confused by that whole notion. I should have kept posting! 

I have new motivation and direction thanks to some great guidance from Javacia Harris Bowser, founder of See Jane Write, a network for empowering women bloggers, writers, and entrepreneurs. Check out her great work at www.seejanewritebham.com.  She has been for me an answer to prayer and I hope a blessing to you all as I make PBT better. Look for new posts every few days!

You might have already noticed the improved look, including bigger photos and font. I'll also begin including more photos of me, my family, my church, and my work. I hope you can easily see my passions and love for this work and my hope that it will help you build the church. Please let me know what you think!

I now have a much better sense of where to go from here. PBT will be getting my primary focus for a while and then I will be creating a whole new website. More on that later. Now about this wonderful picture book…

Todd Parr is well-known for his brightly colored books about simple but important issues such as The Feelings Book and It’s Okay to be Different
Here are three others:



I Made a Mistake is similar in look and content. It offers aspects of the complicated concept of grace to very young children (age 3 and up) in situations that are very understandable.

Picture Book: It's Okay to Make Mistakes
Author & Illustrator: Todd Parr
Original Publisher & Date: Little, Brown Books, 2014
Age & Grade Appropriateness: 3 and up, Pre and up
Formats other than Book: Tablet

Recently the children’s minister at my church asked about books she could use to tackle the abstract, multifaceted, and crucial concept of grace with our children. This book and others came to mind. Below is a list of 14 of the best books on PBT (and date of my post) about what we in the United Methodist church call Justifying Grace, the kind of grace that is forgiveness. In later PBT posts this month, I’ll address the 2 other kinds of grace: Prevenient Grace & Sanctifying grace.  

Consider age appropriateness when choosing which book to use with the children at your church, your own kids/grand kids, a small group of adults, or a client in therapy/spiritual direction. People of all ages can be reminded of the power of this kind of grace for healing relationships through these books.

A Day’s Work - Apr. 15, 2015
Hope Springs - Dec. 30, 2014
The Grudge Keeper - Oct. 17, 2014
What is My Song? - Sept. 27, 2014
Spuds - Sept. 16, 2014
The Sandwich Swap - June 10, 2014
Sorry! (3 books) - Feb. 3, 4 & 5, 2015
You are not my Friend… - Jan. 16, 2015
The Scarves - Oct. 30, 2014
Desmond and the Very Mean Word - Sept. 19, 2014
Lilly’s Purple Plastic Purse - June 23, 2014
When Sophie Gets Angry… - June 3, 2014

Sunday, September 13, 2015

Do Something GRAND!

It’s National Grandparents Day here in the states. On the website, the folks at www.grandparentsday.org encourage everyone to “Do something GRAND!” Today I have a blogpost for you that celebrates grandparents, including details on 2 very different books about grandmothers. If you want more picture book options featuring grandparents, go to the list of green search words and click on “grandparents.” You’ll be taken to 36 different picture books I’ve featured on this blog!

What grand thing have I done today? I’ve designed and taught an adult Sunday School lesson. I’ve invited and welcomed a family to my church’s worship service where the praise was mighty and authentic. I’ve tutored a child. And I’ve visited my local library where I complimented the librarians on the grand work they do for me. Then I left with my usual big stack of picture books. Oh boy!

Look for more grand possibilities as I expand and diversify my work here at PBT. Details to come soon. Meanwhile, enjoy all the picture books I have already offered you and the many possibilities they hold for ministry, teaching, therapy, or especially for today, family time with a child or grandchild where you can talk about your values and your legacy. 
Picture Book: A Special Gift for Grammy 

Author: Jean Craighead George

Illustrator: Steve Johnson and Lou Fancher

Summary: At the end of a visit, Hunter gives his grandmother a pile of stones on the front porch, near her front door.
What will I do with a pile of stones?” she asked Hunter.
“What everyone does with a pile of stones,” he answered.
Her simple response is, “Of course,” a response that is repeated time and time again as various passersby use the stones for various purposes. Some are used to mark the grave of a much-love dog. Three are used to give directions to a couple of Girl Scouts. Hunter himself finds that 5 of the stones serve as important symbols of his identity so they are strung on a necklace for Grammy. The last stone is found to be perfect for skipping lightly across a nearby lake.   

Hanna’s Comments: There are many things I love about this book. It emphasizes generosity, creativity, and memory while offering a nature story. Too many children are not able to see the bounty that is in their back yard or a nearby park. Stones, like many other gifts of the natural world, offer great potential for marking, adorning, and remembering. Offer your children a lesson on the qualities and possibilities of a pile of stones or one remarkable rock.

There are many places in scripture where stones or rocks are mentioned either concretely or metaphorically. The old hymn Come, Thou Fount of Every Blessing has had generations singing, “Here I raise mine Ebenezer.” That’s a reference to a biblical story of thanksgiving in 1st Samuel. Do you know what a cairn is? Cairns are piles of stones used for marking a place of memory. Jacob built such a cairn to witness his and Laban’s covenant. Peter is called the rock, and we are instructed to build our house on stone, not sand.

Original Publisher & Date of Publication: Harper, 2013

Age & Grade Appropriateness: 4 and up, Pre and up

# of Pages: 32

Available in Spanish? Not at present 

Formats other than Book: None at present

PBT Category: Fresh off the Press

Scripture Connections: Jacob places his pillow stone as an altar (Genesis 28:18-22); Joshua instructs them to take 12 stones from the Jordan River (Joshua 4); Then Samuel took a stone (1 Samuel 7); a wise one build a house upon the rock (Matthew 7: 24-27); you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church (Matthew 16:18); yourselves, like living stones, are being built up as a spiritual house (1 Peter 2:5)

Idea(s) for Application: Consider a series of lessons on how stones are used in scripture. Let this story be your starting point, emphasizing that, of course, a pile of stones has so much potential for enriching our lives.  
Picture Book: Grandma in Blue with Red Hat

Author: Scott Menchin

Illustrator: Harry Bliss

Summary: From a young artist’s point of view, this book celebrates the potential of art to honor and commemorate the love a grandson has for his grandmother. The unnamed protagonist attends art lessons at his city’s art museum. There he learns that art is beautiful, different, funny, tells stories, comes from far away, and makes others feel good. When he realizes that all of these qualities are also true of his grandmother, he decides he must give his grandmother to the museum. Once the museum curator gets involved, the narrator has a more practical idea. He studies the styles of various artists, is inspired by them, and creates a one-boy exhibition. The theme? Grandma. Many come, including the museum curator who acquires a piece for the museum: Grandma in Blue with Red Hat.

Hanna’s Comments: This is such a fun book. It teaches a great deal about art while celebrating an extraordinary cross-generational relationship. Encourage discussion about the nature of art and God’s role in artistic endeavors and the creative spirit of humans. Emphasize how the love of these family members inspires and enriches the beauty of the boy’s art. Look for evidence of loving art in your family or family of faith. Talk about how God and scripture have been the subject of artists throughout history.

Original Publisher & Date of Publication: Abrams, 2015

Age & Grade Appropriateness: 4 and up, Pre and up

# of Pages: 32

Available in Spanish? Not at present 

Formats other than Book: Tablet

PBT Category: Fresh off the Press  

Scripture Connections: The skills of artists (Exodus 35); but now, O Lord, you are our God, we are the clay (Isaiah 64:8)

Idea(s) for Application: Use this book as a discussion starter for considering how God has created humans to be both artists and art, creators and creations, inspired by God and for God.